Soulmates vs. Life Partners

Today we’re going to discuss soulmates and life partners. My whole journey in teaching this is based off of what I have experienced in my own life. It brings me so much joy to not only be able to share this information with you by pulling back the veil on my own life experiences, but to also support you in elevating your energy so you can attract your desired reality with a partner.

One thing that I will put an emphasis on is that there is no right or wrong; good or bad relationship. Society is obsessed about having the “right” relationship when truly it doesn’t really matter what type of relationship you have. You are able to have any kind of relationship because nothing is written in stone.

We have the free will to be able to change our course of life and do what is right for us and our heart. As we heal and transform we begin to feel differently about the type of relationship that resonates with us and that is how the energy begins to shift. The energy sector between my husband and I is currently shifting just like this.

My husband and I have been together for 14 years total, and during 10 of those years we were boyfriend and girlfriend. It has been a journey and not necessarily an easy one at that. We’ll dig into this later.

First, I’d like to introduce you to who I am and my work. I'm Beth Lopez. I am the owner of Healing Feminine Healers of the World. I am a Healer Soul Coach and I am blessed to have you in my presence. I hope that my message opens you up to different perspectives and then allows you to feel your church victory in the realm of love.

Now, a soulmate can be a spouse or a partner, but they can also be a relative or friend. I personally know a mother and daughter that are soulmates to one another. Therefore, soulmates can be of the same gender as well, and there isn't any exclusivity to who can be considered a soulmate. It is helpful to understand that a soulmate can come in a variety of forms, including a furry pet. In addition, you can have several soulmates.

Your soulmate will arrive at just the right time. They will not arrive any sooner, or any later. This soulmate will appear when you are ready. For instance, you could experience one karmic relationship or even several before you find your soulmate. There are so many different variables that come into play when it involves discovering your soulmate. This is why it is important to not become overly obsessed with what you've already heard regarding this topic.

Furthermore, your soulmate or soulmates, might not be in your life forever. Sometimes they are simply here to teach you a particular lesson. Therefore, it is also important not to get too attached to the idea of holding onto your soulmate forever. It is more beneficial to obsess over learning to love yourself deeper and deeper everyday. Learning to heal yourself and care for your well-being more than ever before.

So many people spend years remaining fixated on finding their soulmate, Twin Flame, or better half while totally forgetting to focus on what they can do within themselves to prepare for this other person to arrive into their life.

What are you doing internally to call this soul into your existence?

In order to attract this person and the type of treatment we desire we must learn to heal ourselves because if these wounds remain within us we will never be able to have the experience we truly want with our soulmate.

For example, let's talk about my husband and I for a moment. If he is vibing off of the healing I am doing and the new energies I am creating then he indeed is meant to be in my energy field. He is meant to be in my heart. However, if a distance begins to grow between my husband and I during my healing process then he does not belong in my energy field.

This essentially means that he is not ready to absorb the energy frequency I am vibrating at. At this point he may choose to stay on his own path because he is so enclosed in his reality, and perhaps not quite awakened just yet.

What's important to understand is that we can only attract what we are. So, if you want someone who is compassionate and understanding you must possess those characteristics within yourself first. And, by chance you do attract someone with these traits even without having them yourself first then you will experience a situation where you aren't fully appreciative of your partner's characteristics and you will fall into the old patterns and behaviors from the past.

All of this is to say that if you really want to connect with your soulmate then you have to align those energies within your own soul. You have to align with your heart. This allows you to permanently flush everything out as deep as the cellular level. When you begin instantly aligning with yourself you are then creating the vibration of bringing forth that person that you wish and so desire.

Now, let's take a look at all of this from an alternative point of view. Remember I said earlier that we are not bound to our soulmates. Picture the scenario where you are with your soulmate, and they are triggering you like no other. And, despite doing everything in your power to do your soul healing and your inner work nothing is changing. Well then this may be the point where you need to move forward, and of course, this is never easy.

It is important to realize though that life is not over. A soulmate is here to support you in learning crucial lessons to grow and heal. A life partner on the other hand is more.

A life partner is someone who has been on their own healing path who has learned the lessons they needed to learn. Now, you may find that this union occurs out of friendship, or that you are automatically attracted to this person. This union serves as more of a companionship because both of you have learned the hard lessons and can provide each other with a common understanding of love, support and guidance. You two are navigating life hand in hand. There is nobody above, or below one another.

It is almost like all of the ego has left and what's leftover is this sheer love and appreciation because both of you have learned from your lessons. It is a completely different space being that you are able to lend each other support, and be so very attracted & in love with one another. There is a mutual respect at play in this type of relationship.

How amazing is it that so many different types of relationships exist?

This is why it is necessary to remain open and not obsess over the labels that ensue relationships. Because you will attract and bring forth the soul and person that is supposed to be in your life; whether it be as a lover; as a life companion; as a soulmate, or as a Twin Flame.

Here are some other things that distinguish a soulmate from a life partner:

• With a soulmate you might feel a very strong spiritual connection; like you have known each other for a very long time. You may have flashbacks or feel you have been with this person before, or feel this person's thoughts or feelings when you are together or apart. When you meet this person you might experience a major life shift.

• With a life partner, you are able to learn from one another in that you may have a difference of opinions, but there are still similarities and common interests. You may desire to turn this relationship into something more by getting married, or starting a family. You get along like best friends, while also having a physical attraction to one another.

These are the differences between a soulmate and a life partner.

Remember, that everything is possible. You can bring anything into your experience as long as you perform the inner work that needs to be done.

If this resonates with you I invite you to connect with me to see how we can work together to transform and heal your soul so we can bring forth that person that is supposed to be in your experience.